Today is the day, W and I sit down to discuss how everything in our house is going to divided. I do not anticipate D talk but you never know. If she starts to talk about feelings do I just validateand let it be, or should I ever, engage in feelings talk. We have been separated for over three months now and feels like slowly we have inched towards total separation and eventually D. Though no talk about that stuff has occured. I am officially leave for a new assignment in august, so timing is a bit tough. Again thanks everyone.