Watching an emotionally empty woman that was in a lot of pain give herself physically to other men to feel important and attractive, well I just feel bad for her.
Make no mistake, it would be hard to get over if she wanted to R, but more because I wouldn't trust her character to behave in the future, not just because it hurt my feelings.
This is the place that I am getting to now. Even if my W wanted to R, I am not sure if I could trust her anymore. And I wouldn't want to put myself (or my kids) through this again.
I am also dealing with this!
Me:44 EXW 44 Wonderful Children M11, T14 BD 6/14 OM Confirmed Divorce Final 2/25/16 "It works if you work it!"