Just realised wife of 12 years is having a MLC

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Ok sorry for the delayed update but I'm away with work at the moment.

So... On Monday morning the W returned early in the AM stating she had ended the A. I remained calm and detached, though obviously this pleased me. I have stuck to saying that we are seperated and going on with our lives. I'm Glad I had to fly out Tuesday first thing though or I may have cracked... So Monday night we all had dinner together and the W offered that I could stay (spare room obviously) but I said thank you that's a lively offer but I think it's best I dont.

So... I have been avoiding contact bar essentials... I must admit I'm finding it harder now as I just want to bombard her and shower her with love and begging! However I am sticking to Sandi2's rules and advice and trying to stay strong!!

I thought I had done a great job of detaching but then as soon as she left OM it all came flooding back. I think this is why so many of us LBHs break all the rules as soon as the WW says the A is over..

So I'm trying to stay strong and keep doing my 180's and GAL. Hopefully she will continue to see changes.. Do u guys think this is a positive response to my 180's? A lie? Or just unrelated?