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Just my opinion but a birds nest arrangement is just enabling the affair and wont do anything for you because none of it will be your space.

Home isnt a house its a feeling and what kids need from you is a home that gives the stability and warmth not a house just because its familiar.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress