I get what you both are saying, the problem is, the Divorce is the end to me. Once that paper is signed, my mentality will be "we are done" and I can move forward without her. This isn't what I wanted, nor is it going to be what I want, but I have to do what is right for myself and my children. Even if it means moving on without her.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016