No I'm not sure you can, and I think at the moment he has the mentality that he isn't ever going to loose me. Like his saying about continuing to live together and that maybe we should get remarried in a few years BS. I feel he is using me as a safety net and that's not fair. I'm not a second choice or a back up plan. We never really hang- pretty much live separate lives apart from usually at the weekend he asks to do something with me and baby.
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
