See her along with your codependency on her and the relationship for the addiction that it is.

Realize and agree that the best way to beat your addiction is to go cold turkey.

Live that decision out every day, one day at a time.

Worry about the other stuff later, but get this part down asap. So much stems from it.

Have you read Codependent No More?

-PM

M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds

"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.