Gee whiz, by the time I get a post out, the whole subject has changed. Explains why my post to Alpha seems sort of off topic.

Anyway, Zues, Starsky, and others, I think we agree on what is morally right and wrong. I think what we (Wonka & myself) are saying is that we just don't always follow what we know to be right. If we did, what a different world this would be. It does seem that it should be that simple, doesn't it? In my rational mind, I agree. In my WW mindset, forget it. Sometimes our state of mind can make simple things seem very complicated.

I think Starsky said the word I was seeking earlier.......lust. A powerful pull. Add emotions and personal circumstances into the mix and you've got problems. Doesn't change right into wrong, but it often changes our actions.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!