I thought of another thing that brought my M down.
There for a while every day when I picked her up from work she would have nothing but negative things to day about her day and her job. It got so bad I finally told her I didn't want to hear about the bad things, only the good things that went on in her day. I wasn't willing to listen to both the good and the bad, I was just trying to get her (control her) into focusing on the good aspects of her job.
Me:33 W:34 T:13 M:8.5 D mentioned & S 2/13/15 "We can never get back together" 4/2/15 Visited & Mentioned she hasn't filed 4/20/15 "I want to have cats back" 5/4/15 Served D papers 5/8/15