That i understand. The resentment. I feel it with my W as well with the continuance of her friendship with the OM and the belief that she's not doing anything wrong.
I think though that its similar. We have to let them come around to the reality on their own, while maintaining our boundary for ourselves.
You'll still feel bitter, unheard, and hurt she's not seeing it. Thats just a time thing. It will dull if you just keep your head up and stay firm with what YOU believe is right for you.
Love this one: "Don't spend time beating on a wall hoping to transform it into a door".
M: 10 years, T: 12 years Me: 41, WAW: 38 SS:19, D:18, SD:7
