What makes you so sure that your W isn't in A? In reading your post, I am pretty certain that she is in an A.
Originally Posted By: Ripe
Leon01, I have read Sandi2's post on Wayward Wifes. I don't think it applies in my case. My wife is not having an affair, so the toughness Sandi2 advocates for those type of wives does not apply, I think.