Also to Cherry and Starsky309: could you guys maybe post in here the link to where I can read your stories? I would like the opportunity to read and respond to your threads, and haven't been successful in finding them thus far.
Hope you have a lot of time, LOL -- I posted a LOT!
If you want the Reader's Digest version, go immediately to May - Aug 2007, as that's when my wife went wayward (NOTE: my posting name at that time was Chocolateeyes):