https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LcZ7D6YG3BY This is part 2 of mine, the link to part one is on that thread. I to, like you am sort of struggling to get a plan together. I'm working on detachment but having recently had his baby my head is all over the place!
I'm going to check the thread of sandi's your linked to. It sounds like it might help me. Good luck, again I don't have much advise- but it helps to support each other and its a healthy way to vent instead of shouting at the WAS.


Me 26 H 25
M 4
T 5
Baby born 4/14
BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
ILY-1/16
ILYBNILWY 4/16
ILY 6/16
ILYBINILWY 6/16
Baby due 3/17
BD 8/16