Leon01, I have read Sandi2's post on Wayward Wifes. I don't think it applies in my case. My wife is not having an affair, so the toughness Sandi2 advocates for those type of wives does not apply, I think.
It applies!
Infidelity does not mean that an active affair needs to be occurring.
That took me a very long time to understand.
I would guess that the fact that you are posting here makes her wayward, or at least 99.99% of the time it does. (there have been a few WAS posting here (like Sandi2))
Take what Sandi2 has written and apply it to your sich, I know that might seem counter intuitive but DB'ing is all about that.(180)
