I'm new to your sitch but I'd concur with what the others say. I've been really bad at the whole "the end" thing but it's something you need to work on yourself if you want to DB.
So far in my sitch the past 8 months saw w leave taking my s and never wanted to see me again, that it was impossible for us to be back together:"The End", she was living at her mothers looking to have somewhere of her own "The End", I moved from the flat we shared to my own rented house "The End" and so on.
Now she's considering her options not ruling us in but not ruling us out a huge shift due to her observing the changes and 180s in me over the past 8 months, it's all a long, long road but it's not the end until YOU decide you want it to be.
Ultimately you and your w can both end the relationship it will take both of you to continue it, you only control one side of that. D isnt necessarily the end as Mozza says but only you know if you can continue or not. Dont let an external event no matter how serious tell you when that time is.
All my best thoughts to you, take it easy on yourself and try to breathe and relax.
Edz
Last edited by edz; 03/26/1512:52 PM.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015