Ha, yes Kat. Each of us is at a different point in the readiness of hearing something or seeing reality.
And it's nice to know you can at least talk to your ex. I have to go in armed and see no time that'll change
Wet, I think it's great you are volunteering. I've heard it said (and I remember it because I feel the same way) that when looking for signs in others that they are healing, look to their viewpoint of others. Are they focused on themselves (early in the stages you are and need to be) but as time goes on you look to help others. That's a sign you're looking beyond yourself and a sign you are healing. Since it's hard to see the forest for the trees, it's sometimes nice to know how the switch from focusing on oneself to others is a sign that healing is beginning.
I suspect it also speaks to life in general and how has many philosophical implications.
Feeling the need to volunteer again, going to the gym, having fun with the kids... hmm... seems spring is coming, no?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
