But I don't think that kicking her out of the BR is appropriate at this point. I believe Rai is in a different position (I quickly browsed through it). It seems they are already going separate ways but still living under the same roof.
My W appears to want it to work it out again between us, but is having difficulties letting go of OM.
I'm going to observe for a while (couple weeks). She's going to start a new role within her company on April 1. She won't have the freedom of coming and going as she pleases, unlike in her current position. I'll look for some changes.. if I notice continuos texting and questionnable situations that make me think she met with OM I'm going to tell her, she needs to def cut off all contacts with OM, or else I'll continue my plan of going away for a while.
I just hope my LRT won't backfire especially regarding child abandonment etc. I actually talked about this with my lawyer friend, who told me that isn't the case. I just need to make sure I'm sending them some cash every month to prove I still provided. But who knows...
Anyway that's just something I need to do in order to heal, detach and GAL. To me it's very difficult if I stay here, as we just moved here and I don't have any close friends, plus my job is a true pain in the azz.
M 30 W 31 S8 and S6 M 7 T 13 D-Day Mid December 2014 EA/PA confirmed end of December 2014
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