Thanks for sharing that Starsky - yes this sounds very familiar. (obviously didn't get through your WHOLE story - man what a story!)

Had a start of a deep talk last night, but the kids know something is up an D15 sat with us for an hour wanting to kid around and be fun, which is not always like her. She stayed until after W gave up and fell asleep.

We did talk about my distrust and I asked her to see her phone.
She declined and asked if that is really what I want, that would really help.

It would. My guess is that she will give it to me tonight after she's cleaned it. Argg!! (see - there's my phone, nothing on it)

Thanks again for keeping up


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015