Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #6)

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Hi Little, nice to hear from you. Just a couple of comments from me on your post above...

What were your responsibilities here? You sound as though this was all 'done' to you -

he "put me in the position of having to be..." "due to his complete lack of responsibility"

Did you have to become 'mother?' You say it happened unintentionally....

I have read some stuff on other sitches and this resonates with them...Labug is one I think. This theme about how much responsibility you take on 'for' others. I think this is yours to own, but from your post above I think you're pushing that on to H. Yes, he may have had a part in this, but what was your part?

You also say he became bitter about it. So, what did becoming 'Mum' to him do for the dynamics of your R?

I hope this is useful, and I'm not trying to poke at you, only to help. I think there was a lot in those few sentences to maybe ponder some more over.

Hope you are still enjoying your new place, and reading some great books...:-)