I am a few months into mine. She moved out V-Day, but I started the process in January.
The problem is Mozza, we have 1-1 1/2 Divorce Mediations left. Then it's done.
I keep have a reaccuring dream, that we are about to sign the papers and we end up talking in the hallway and postpone it. Instead we spend a month trying to "fix" things, but in the process we move out of town closer to her folks (which are now on "my" side) and start over, going to counseling and eventually renewing our vows for a "new" marriage, leaving the old one behind us.
I don't know. Some days I think I can't live without her, other days I know I can. I guess it's all part of the process.
Me: 38 W: 32 S10 D6 T: 10 (02/2004) M: 7 (12/2007) Separation 02/2015 OM confirmed 01/2015, D mentioned 12/2014 D finalized 9/2016