WAS asked for divorce today.

[aNewGuy]

I also agree Starsky309- "False positives are always easier to deal with than false negatives."

Maybe, possibly she is simply asking for this divorce to see if I support her in it, be passive in it, or be outright defensive of our marriage in it?

Might be a few days before I post, I feel I need to sit back and read some more and keep moving forward and let some more of this all soak in before I write too much more. We are to meet up Saturday )my decision) to discuss the divorce (her decision), and I have an appointment with my DB coach on Friday.