Thanks Bea and Job. Yes, I guess the boring is better than wild and drama. And the car insurance for him is just an expense. I don’t think he is looking for a new one because it is better than to have it with me on the same policy. He is just desperately trying to save the money.

I think he already discovered that “it's not cheap out there on his own”. We were always a team and supported each other in difficult times. I think I’m still kind of an “insurance policy” for him. The condo mortgage is still on both names, so I think he thinks he can count on me in case he cannot pay it. I’ve been nice about things like that so far. And don’t plan to change it, unless it affects my financial stability. I will let the universe to take care of whatever deeds he has to pay for his choices...

Oh, and I guess I jinxed it, LOL. He texted me today telling me that he will be in town next weekend and asking me if the taxes will be ready for him to sign. I replied that the taxes are ready. He texted back that he would arrange some time to sing. This time the texts were kind of dry, he didn’t address me by name, said thank you though… Maybe he thought that he was in contact too much recently and didn’t want to put another “Hi Bright” in his texts, LOL. I replied the same way. I’m getting really good at this smile . Just wondering how much longer I want to play this game…


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state