So happy you are not one of those ladies that get back into a R and then start taking it for granted and empty a jar of painful words on a H because of all his missteps.
You sound really mature, you know the R is very fragile, you know it need nurture and you are doing it. Watering the seed everyday. Fantastic!!!
It's very encouraging to read you story. Love it.
XOXO Pink
Thanks Pink
I will say one of the things I rarely did (maybe twice total) was hash out the past as far as yelling and calling him names and saying hurtful things. The only time I did do that the two times was in the beginning of piecing in August-October.
I hope that my story will help others on wjat not to do and what works. I hope to be able to help others but still have a lot to learn myself. I also plan to stay around here to repay all the help others have given me. I will never forget Woundedfool telling me I could repay him by returning the help to others. So that I will do.