It does. I backslid during our piecing, but I have come to the conclusion the H had some severe emotional issues, always had, and this could not have ended any other way. I became an emotional wreck, not so fun, (detach fail) out of his subtle hints of leaving me again and hurtful behaviors in between the nice stuff. His choice was to end it, cruel and cold as he could be.
It helps me to know that the tainted feeling, the entitled feelings are natural. I would say everything smelled like cat pee that had been cleaned up but hadn't gone away
I will be rooting for you, TO. I am glad your man realized he'd be a fool to leave someone who tried as hard as you have!
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
