Thanks Joe, it is really good to hear you say this about yourself.
We have mostly referred to affairs b/c that seems to be the common denominater across the board, however, as I have pointed out in my own personal waywardness, it is not limited to just a one-person-affair to qualify as a WW. It is more like she adopts a different lifestyle from her usual one. It's as though she is living a double life.
How much of a clash the two lifestyles cause, may determine how bad she crashes, IDK.
Referring back to Starsky's remarks about how the WW (and all that's thrown at him) affects the very core of a man.......I hope you caught it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!