Well I'll be off for a couple of hours, so you can catch up LOL!!
Sandi, you and I should write a book someday. We can ask MWD if she'll write the Foreward to it. We can call it something like "When It All Falls Apart: A Story of Betrayal and Redemption from a Former Wayward Spouse and Another Betrayed Husband" or some such! We could do like a back-and-forth thing with blocks of text, each giving our own viewpoints on the same thing.