My H is both preyed upon and predator.

He is OM in OW's relationship and always has been.

As far as I know her OM is unaware. But he's half way around the world and I have no idea who he is - poor man.

OW/OM's R started as an A and broke his M up - then she cheated on him with my H.

I don't see her as a predator though. That implies a strength I might admire. I see her (and my H right now) as lost and emotionally weak.

Complex web of infidelity - and as I told my H - that's not my web and I'm not going to be in it!

Last edited by Toots; 03/25/15 09:42 PM.
T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus