Thanks toots. Did forget to include I sent one text earlier only asking if s is swimming tomorrow so I know to pick him up and more importantly I can wash his trunks ready (they were in the basket from yesterday) no reply on that so just washed it all ready in case, but haven't chased or asked / invited anything else and no r talk at all. Exactly as you say nothing to be gained right at the moment.
Felt not upset or lonely but v drained and cold tonight I think past few days emotions catching up very nice hot shower and catching up with some reading (and forums)
Much better now.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015