WAS asked for divorce today.

[aNewGuy]

Starsky309: Your reply I think hits the nail on the head in almost all aspects. You are confirming a lot of what I already very strongly suspect, that there is another man. I have a lot of forgiveness in my heart and won't say "never" to reconciliation even if things have crossed the physical boundary as well as the emotional one, even though I have been faithful myself I do consider it possible for her to come back and be forgiven if my conditions, still being formulated, are met.

Cherry: I'm working on taking care of me! Right now I'm focused on calming my nerves as the night the bomb was dropped the floodgates of stress hormones were opened and closing them back down is being quite a challenge.

Thanks for the welcome you guys!