TO - I remember reading your sitch a bit this winter and thinking how similar our H sounded in their apathy, lack of effort and what not. Mine is pretty special, an interesting emotional land mine when poked, tends toward some very manipulative behavior.
I am wondering how much I messed up during piecing. Not that it excused his actions. But. When you say you weren't ready, what do you mean?
When did you know your H was really trying? What corner did he have to round, outside of the A ending?
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
