You know no matter what your transgressions were, no matter how bad you messed up,
YOU did not cause the affair/infidelity!
I think most LBS's are codependent and tbh this is the area that they need to work on the most. Being told what to do and when to do it, is not healthy behavior. We are now adults and get to choose the life that we want to live. It takes a long time to understand that.
Amen to that! It's a lesson I'm learning very slowly. I never really believed I caused the A, but codependency has been a huge and paralyzing issue for me in the past. Still is, sometimes.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
