Hi. Not a vet but don't get involved in talks until your ready If he starts the talks listen, don't react , listen more , don't react. Don't react. Nothing you say will change his mind at the moment. Take your anger or sadness or disappointment and listen to what his says , validate , not agree, understand how he thinks, not agree with how he thinks and if your struggling to listen tell him you need to think and walk away This is all very hard but it can be done Stay strong for you and your child.
