This lice thing is very absorbing but really I was just belly-aching about the housework this problem has generated...

So I had a good meeting with my lawyer today and he told me to go ahead and move forward with my housing plans. So now I've got to prioritize the order in which I start dealing with all this stuff.

I think this is like all my other issues. It will all become clear what order things need to happen as I take each given step. But I admit I feel a bit overwhelmed at the moment.

I observe about myself that I tend to wait for direction before I take steps, and that was a big part of the security of being married to stbx. I'm very competent at doing but unless I have prior experience I'm hesitant to take the first step. Now I'm in a situation where I have to set the directions, not just execute, and it's pushing my comfort zone.

Interesting.


Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.