Wife having emotional affair 5

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Update

Turns out the wife is now with family. She is messed up bad(not physically, mentally). OM refused to leave her alone. She acts normall as can be infront of kids. The kids are staying with me. The wife refuses to let any of us call police on OM. So at this time just keeping her safe is there priority.

As for me I have to start packing up old house. I'm going to give it a day or so. Maybe he will leave. When I do have to go out there I'm going to bring some friends to help and also so nothing happens to him. I think at this point we just let everything calm down for a bit.

I have never had to deal with something like this. I did see her for a little bit last night to do taxes. And all I said was I'm glad to see her safe. And got a huge back lash. So as for now just going to be positive around her and fun. Not going to bring up anything.

If anyone has any advise on this please help! Websites, books, anything at all!

Thanks
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