from a friend: (I) blamed myself for everything and tried to be "better." I just recently discovered I don't need validation from others (although, sure, it's nice) to know who I am. Since that change the people who undervalued are dropping like flies. I no longer give them my energy. When you undervalue yourself, you attract others that undervalue you as well. I finally see that. So happy to get that message.
BaZinga!
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss