Thank you Vapo. The ONLY reason she was even invited, is because I know it would have crushed my son not to see his Mom on his Birthday. He is taking this whole divorce really hard. He was so excited she was here, but I could quickly see that it moved onto sadness when she all but ignored him. She hasn't seen/spoken to the kids since Sunday. Initially, she was going to come over early, I was going to continue getting the house in order, work on dinner, etc while she spent some time with the kids, guess it was not part of her plan.


Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016