One question i do have for folks here. Beyond the A, at which point should we disclose the impending D, and then the final D if it goes through?
I need some close, family and friend support, especially those who have been through it themselves and understand some of the issues surrounding a D.
I think if you need emotional support and even specific advice, you should seek it at any time. Just keep your circle of advisers small, and ask them to keep things confidential until YOU are ready to go more public with them.