"W still has a lot of anger aimed at me though at times whenever R comes up"

I think it's really really important to stick to the "No R TAlks!" rule as the Vets say above. It's a cheeseless tunnel right now.

I wouldn't set too much store by what she's saying about the A either...

You say it's too little too late above. Well, who knows in terms of your M - time will tell my friend. But in termss of you, your future life, your kids and possible future relationships....there's plenty of life to be lived yet!

Keep going Alpha, you're doing great. Keep heeding the advice and practicing emotional control in more difficult situations...

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus