I agree with all the others. Don't wait for a reply, keep GAL. If you sent that message you may only be sealing your H's doubts. Just a thought, says he's been ill, busy at work, a million other reasons why he ain't been in touch. I've read again and again here of a spouse thinking of returning only to be turned off it by pressure. I know I'm not one to talk in this regard. Just wait - unless of course you truly want to divorce, which doesnt seem to be the case.
BD - 30TH JAN 2015 S - 30TH JAN 2015 PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014) CONTINUAL TALK OF D ME: 31 W: 28 T: 10yrs M: 4.5yrs D:5, S:6