This week I got 'Connecting Through Yes' by Jack Ito. It is a very good book. It basically covers agreement (validation) as a means to build respect and then attraction through agreement. It covers divorce, infidelity, and a rang of other topics. Not quite the step by step in depth guide I thought it might be but it makes a lot of sense. If you search his name he has a site/blog with many good articles.
Also, people say 5 love languages is a good read. I don't have it myself though yet.
BD - 30TH JAN 2015 S - 30TH JAN 2015 PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014) CONTINUAL TALK OF D ME: 31 W: 28 T: 10yrs M: 4.5yrs D:5, S:6