Should i expose the affair, or?

[Sotto]

I wouldn't consider exposure. These things have a way of becoming known to people over time. My H's parents didn't know about his A for a few months, but they do now. And I'm glad I wasn't the one to tell them.

I think patience is the key here. You don't need to be the one to drop the nuclear bomb - time will do it's work.

Try and take your focus off more off the A and put it more on to moving forwards yourself..