If she already considers herself not married to me, Then what claim do I have against her altogether? I'm really beginning to have second thoughts about confronting her. Perhaps you're right raliced, at this stage in the game what is the point? I just feel like I have made so many mistakes along the way. I suppose there's no way to correct any of them.
RAI
RAI- I've got to get my girls off to bed and I bet there will be some vets around in the morning - but I was encouraging you to stand up for yourself and I'm not sure you took it that way.
You ask what is the point at this stage of the game? I would say the point is standing up for what is right and taking back some of your power. These are not small things.
I think you need to practice talking yourself up, instead of down. Sleep on it and bump your thread in the morning.