Need Help 2

[errod]

I have a question for the experienced. I don't know if this situation is going to come up or not but if it does I need to prepare myself because I can do extreme damage if not prepared.

Last week D14 told me W is planning on taking her to Myrtle Beach for some of Spring Break. Myrtle Beach is somewhere I have been trying to get my W to go our entire marriage and she had not interest in going. So if she does this it is to take a shot at me. Keep in mind she has not told me any of this and has not even talked about how we are splitting up our days that week.

But if this is the case, how should I handle it when she tries to tell me. Obviously I am going to want to blow up, but that would not be good. If it is by phone do I hang up. If it is by text do I ignore her. If it is in person do I just quietly walk away and go home with out saying a word? And advice to prepare me would be a big help because I know if I don't have a plan I can possibly say something that would end our marriage for good.