Well, that's a start. Understand, she's playing the script word for word. My wife told anyone who would listen that too much had happened in our marriage to ever fix it.

Sounds like you did fairly well but let's have others chime in before you take my word for anything. I will say this, when it's time to have future relationship/reconciliation conversations you can always say to her something to the effect of: "I'm not asking you to feel a particular way, I'm asking you to work on the marriage with me, the feelings may come later." or something to that effect.

Hang in there, keep working on you, GALing, all that good stuff. It gets easier, I promise.

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3