"Insupportablility" is what her lawyer put on our decree. My L said it was the same irreconcilable differences. To be honest, I don't really care what the reason says on a legal document. They can't put "Wayward Wife" on it, I asked.
A friend told me I should care be because I may date someone in the future(waaaaaaay future) and they may pull the record.
Why would I want to date anyone that pull my divorce decree?
Part of me thinks I should do what you're doing, Errod. I could gain more time to work on DBing, so she could see the changes I'm making, see me GALing, etc. However, accepting the D is going to happen regardless has helped me detach. I don't consider it giving up, it's just an example of dropping the rope.
It's still hard to detach and remain detached. The one constant through all the stories on this board that end with a WAW returning is detaching.
Good job on telling her to enjoy her time out. I think they notice when we act "as if".
M:42 W:43 T:14 M:10 S:9 D:5 W filed 12/22/14 EA 12/31/14 PA 4/10/15 D final 5/13/15
