Thanks Guys. Yes, I realise now it was reactive and best to just not attach to an outcome of him responding...

He will do what he will do....nothing I can do about that...

I'll just work on better enjoying the silence :-)

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Me 48 H 46
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BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus