Try not to stress too much Errod. My D should be final any day. It was filed back in Dec. My W has been driven to get this done ASAP and I haven't been doing anything to block it or drag it out (other than trying my best to DB). My attorney is shocked that we are moving so quickly. You just filed and like most lawsuits Ds take some time.

It has helped me to accept that we are divorcing. There is nothing I can do to stop the divorce. However, do I really don't want to continue on with this M as it is/was? I don't.

If we ever do R, a new M would be a great to symbolize the hard work and dedication we both put into reconnecting and building a new life. That may or may not ever happen. I don't dwell on it but I have thought about it.

M:42 W:43
T:14 M:10
S:9 D:5
W filed 12/22/14
EA 12/31/14
PA 4/10/15
D final 5/13/15