Last night with the spew, a few things that she said ... smh type things was she was threatening to remove my last name and go with her maiden name... I think she was attempting to push my buttons to see if I would lose my temper, no such luck. Then she went off on some other things like me trusting her (Spinning from my stance on the NC with OM, and how she would need to prove that to me) I also made a remark about how over the weekend she was humble and appeared to want to do anything to make me realize she was owning her mistakes, but once the work week started I did'nt hear a peep out of her .... looking back this was pursuing and really not something I should have said, I was just trying to make a point is all .. and failed with the MLC monster in full effect ... lessons still to learn
Anyways today W TM at lunch, asking how my day was, shared this new job opportunity she is thinking of going after. Asking what I thought, then she asked if I would support her in doing this ... told me her concerns, I reassured her and gave her advice ... was like we were M again .. was strange in a way. I told her no harm in interviewing and getting a feel for the place, then discussing it later. She brought up the large loan she is on the hook for ... just things she has not shared in some time.
After our TM exchange she thanked me with the emoji face after ... and said Shannon keeps emailing her what should she say (Shannon is the mediator) I replied that she should just let her know we are going to work on our marriage and hope to not need her services. Left it at that.
Still have my eyes and ears open but there is definately some changes with W over the past month ... I do know after last night there is a TON of work to get through .. baby steps, I need to be patient here and just stay level and focused.
