Confused & mix messages part 2

[Heart14]

This ^^^ is excellent advice. If he wants the divorce or separation, he needs to be the one to follow through.

I am focused on trying to make myself feel good. I know when I met him I had tonnes of confidence, and he found that attractive. I need to feel good about myself and believe in myself do that is a focus of mine, and obviously if he picks up on that that is a huge bonus.

This is good. Dig even deeper. What specifically don't you feel good about? What can you do to improve your self image and feel better about you?

Most of us are advising you against MC. Have you thought about IC? It can be a good, safe outlet for your anger, hurt and frustration.