Just like you, I was terribly afraid of H moving, but after I didn't stand in his way he stopped blaming me for all his woes. He treats me with much more respect, we've managed to stay cordial, and he's made no moves to file. The point is you never know and it isn't over until it's over.
Mr Bond asks tough questions, but he's one of the best around here. Listen to him and put the effort in. You'll be in a much better position if you do the work.
M43 H43 M14 T22 when it all fell apart D12 S10 "Never have been happy" 3/2013 EA/PA since 2/2013 H moved out 11/2013 H looking to buy a house where OW can live with him 5/2015 Very cordial, nothing filed